So now I’m wondering does he care? They love each other like real siblings but don't always show it. I didn’t know what to say. We watched a movie – cuddle – said I love you and went to bed. Girl you hit the nail on the head with this one. We need to open our hearts to those who want to help build us up, not tear us down. 2 weeks ago he stopped saying I love you. Going through a very fresh breakup (be broke it off after I had threatened to end it and I think he felt like he lost power). My biggest regret is answering them. I’ve been taking small steps towards making a new social circle. Btw: He grew up in suburbia and I am a first-generation American. It was just out of anger)…this all happened Saturday. Some months pasted by that we didn’t speak and after he graduated high school, he requested me on Instagram so I accepted and we followed each other. Things were great….. for the first year. PJ is commonly portrayed as sweet, nice, "slow" and dimwitted. I needed to know. I hope you like my product! Whether it is a “like”, a snap chat, a text message, phone call or a facetime of him professing his feelings for me and how much he misses me. I began to develop trust issues when one day he claimed my clothes ended up in his laundry (that he did) and when he pulled the clothes out, they were not mine. Big love and hugs to you. Some days it’s hard to remember how we are all worth so SO much-and on the low days – like this one – I have your words. I honestly think there’s a huge, deep-seated issue plaguing men as a society and I do not know if there’s an easy solution. I came across it looking online for answers. He got no advice from anyone and usually he tells his best friend everything. It just hurts because he knows I was good to him even after all the immature stuff he did to hurt me. Thanks for being part of this tribe Luna 🙂 xx. I had told me wife of the affair (which upset my affair partner) and I was confused as to what I wanted. I broke up with my ex boyfriend because I knew he was cheating on me yet I still love him. We texted back and forth for the next 3 months. All his family hates me and his friends do too. And he says she is not pretty. its still hard not to compare. All my love to you. Perhaps that isn’t true. I turned it ALL around – helped him move twice and was selfless for over a month completely. She does not care about you nearly as much as she cares about herself, her agenda, her image and being in control. I was so devastated that I actually tried to kill myself, but failed. To me, he was the love of my life, I will never feel like that again, I do believe that it is rare for true love to come around twice. The last thing he said to me was that he would see me tomorrow. Instead, he never called and sent me a short text saying “I think its best for you not to come.” I was hurt, angry and frustrated and sent some immature texts and called him crying. But how scary it is to think much if it was superficial to him in the scheme of things… while they were so deeply engraved as important in my memories. He stopped responding to my texts, but before he stopped, he told me about how happy he is that he got the job he wanted and everything. That is my new name for him. i am going through are tough emotional turmoil since past few months. Nothing more. I think inlove his wife more than he does, I don’t know how in Aphrodite’s blue heaven she puts up with it unless its sone kind of arranged marriage or she just stopped loving him. ), So happy it helped! She said she was not leaving her husband because of financial reasons and that she did not want a relationship where she had to answer to anyone. His friends made sure to keep tabs since they are still friends with her as well. I love him, but I know he does not love me. He was always good at finding what I was insecure or unsure about and encouraging me or telling me “you know you got this”. I did however take up the running and guess what I love it ha! One day I went through his IPad and found text messages from an older woman (late 40s) and a girl that bartenders at PJ’s. Please help 😔😔, I am so sorry that you’re going through this all. Keep coming back here to the blog. Every time you hear a text message alert or you hear your phone ring, your heart races and you think, “maybe it’s him?” It never is. Maybe you should stay together and fix things?” He may have been doing his best to focus on our relationship but I just couldn’t let all the lies pass without me doing something about it. I’m completely heartbroken and part of me *really* wants to contact him and try to fix things (which I know I will probably convince him of) but I just think that my part in trying to convince him to be with me ended once my trip ended. Thank you for helping me see that. Thanks for the love 🙂 So glad it helped!! This I s exactly what I needed. However I do not consider myself a cougar because I was not looking for someone younger, we were friends first. In the past, I would hold on to and ruminate over everything, for a long time. I am celebrating my bravery and moving on. She never told me of any leak in her house until I sent the 14 day. However, I was the only one burned. "Skate On Em" ... PJ Ramirez Feat. Feel like he is such manipulater and lier ! I’m at the stage where I just start crying randomly, I know I shouldn’t be and I know I deserve and can do better but I just can’t control my emotions, it’s so hard to let go of someone you thought you knew and loved only to find out that they lack the empathy to be able to truly feel those emotions themselves. Does he regret what he did?”. Now she was the one that didn’t want it. I wanted to believe things would get better. And we’d always end up getting back together. But because I haven’t really been involved with many guys, the fact that we kissed meant a lot to me because I don’t go around kissing everyone or the fact that he asked me to go away with him. He knows I always take him back in with open arms because I care, but why does he always have to hurt me? He said I’m crazy and kept insisting he don’t.know.my.ex. He was very into me and I knew he really liked me a lot physically and personally. He said I am great and beautiful but he doesn’t love me at all and when he is around me he feels nothing and is relieved it’s finally over. We made up however and all seemed fine. in the short run I may be hurt financially but in the long run I can say when I stand before God that I wasn’t deceived by greed. (Sorry for my English! I tried confronting him about it and he came up with many excuses but he said he really liked me, that I was cool and very pretty and thus he hesitated in trying again. How does one come out on top after such a sneaky betrayal? Praying for better days!!! THANK YOU soo much you’re a genius. I’m so thankful I found this! XOXO. & P.J. I took care of him like a king, biggest mistake I done. A year later he asked if I would come to see him and he would pay for my ticket… I did. it was difficult for us, i always tried us to bring our relationship to kept alive, but seems i was the only one who work on us. Yeah, I get that you’ve lost your mojo and your ego is shot because you’re feeling rejected. Lots of love to you soul sis. I am super sad about this,… everything I tryed to do with him to fix things..he is doing it with her… oh I forgot to mention that he was with both of us and few other girls at the same time! I was going through a bad breakup earlier that year and was rebounding through spring and summer. It seemed like he was happy to go out and be single. I still suffer from the betrayal and I dont want him to profit from suffering I still suffer over. I should mention that there was no sex involved. I did tell him that I know he’s repeated the same patterns to which I was blocked on messenger. I was always open and honest with him and told him that unfortunately the process is long but it was only a matter of weeks. I still lived with my ex husband at the time but only for financial reasons. Keep doin your thang! She didn’t reply, but read it. This is me assuming I’m not sure if this is the case. He broke up with that girl and after that he would see me for 5 months to just decide to never speak to me again. For now, I’ll sure print this out.as a reminder that he was just an emotionally unavailable guy. You have set me free !!!! He literally used every bit of me. Copyright © 2020 All Rights Reserved. I cant thank you enough for writing this.Its a hard thing to face the reality of this question. I don’t want to be hard on either of us and I’m hoping that I can find peace and just let it go because it wasn’t meant to be. I don’t understand why he did this to me and hate me so much for. I was devastated. He then changed his picture back to one with just him in it, hours after he broke it off. I just had this happen this week and each post is helping me stick my ground and feel better in a really shotty situation. However, I had some amazing experiences of sharing my weight loss story (tv, magazines) and so when I met him I felt more at peace with who I was than in my entire young life. You are not alone. It’s explains everything relationship-related that I’m always thinking about. She is also out partying this weekend at the Dinah Shore in Palm Springs, so I am sure she will post so many photos of her and other women. He gave some excuse that the girl was another girl he cheated on me with from before the military. He became mean and hateful. He’s called the cops on me while being blacked out twice. So this was huge for me and I felt very betrayed and confused. I got over my sadness because he came to me and was very sad. See my boyfriend works nights & I work during the day so we only get to see each other on a Friday & Saturday. We went out and did fun things together and seemed normal at the time. All year it’s been going nowhere. What I read in this blog was exactly what I needed. Just to remind myself again what a fuckface this guy is. PJ and Gabe are in a semi-neutral relationship. I’m so happy that the post helped 🙂 All my love to you soul sis! But then I worry that he’s very ‘out of sight, out of mind’ and if he’s talking to other girls, would he even miss me? I thought we were in it together, however. I let him use my car when he didn’t have one and bought him so many gifts and kept him fed. Even though I gave him so many. He was also always staying at my place – the little things add up like cleaning, buying essentials – etc. He also kept in contact with 2 more of his exes last year. For being you, for being here, and for being the light that you are 🙂 All my love to you. Yes, 3 hours away from each other. But yet drugs can do anything ? You are understood, loved, empathized with, backed, believed in, rooted for, and never, ever alone in this (or ever). You get it 🙂 Thanks Sadie! PJ loves Charlie, but uses her cuteness to get girls to like him in "Something's Fishy" and uses her to get money in "Kit and Kaboodle". He will not be healing, growing more empathetic, loving, or “come around” because everything is “your fault” not his. I wish that I could advise, but I have too much to say to type it all out not enough hands to type or hours in the day. PJ can also be mad at Bob for his birth certificate, where his name is revealed as 'Potty John' ("Can You Keep a Secret? I stayed for many reasons but the important part was I left for the right reasons. It came down to deep rooted values and he chose to cop out instead of stand up. It bothers me. I went through with a lawyer. I’m happy that the blog has helped and so sorry that you are going through this all, while completely in awe of your strength and awareness. It WILL ?? She normally let's things slip through her mouth. We wore not dating we wore just friends and I kind of got mad at him because he broke my heart and started dating someone else. The questions we always ask ourselves. He claimed that they were just friends (after he told me that she was his first love/first kiss that he fingered once). Thank you so much 🙂 I’m happy that the posts have helped and I’m honored to have a small part in your healing and realizations. It’s what I live for <3, Thanks from the bottom of my heart Eva - for being a part of this tribe and for being YOU. Why didn’t he care to let me fend for myself or let me down? I’ve put it as a bookmark and whenever I feel the idiotic urge to check on him on social media or think about him, I’ll read this. But in the end he wanted to move out but still have me at his beck and call, but only when he decided that he wanted me there. There’s so much resentment. I just wanted to hear an update on this particular relationship in your life. PJ has sat in the same chairs at the hospital in the delivery room four times, respectively, for the births of Teddy, Gabe, Charlie, and "Toby". Thanks for your love, for reading and for your understanding. You’re not alone xx, that actually does sound like something I’d be interested in. For everyone out there going through this crap, don’t put up with their nonsense, we deserve to be treated right. I met someone treated him like a kind , he introduced me to his family got along with his daughter’s mom, had a wonderful relationship with his daughter and he “stepped out “ on me …. Like I said, maybe I’m just competing with his delusion of happiness because if he was so happy without me, why would he keep trying to bait me into conversations? You’ve gone through a horrible, traumatic breakup with an emotionally unavailable guy that broke your heart. I’m just finding it tough to deal with because I know I shouldn’t compare but I can’t understand what this new girl has that I didn’t. (Or so I thought) anyway one day i hear that he is dating someone new,from OUR work. I know please people dont judge me… Anyway, the affair was extremely intense and although it was long distance we did spend time together physically. This is what I’ve always wanted to hear/read. He tried to leave me and then I realized how much of a jerk I’ve been and started to see the goodness in him that I missed all along. I just left the asshole , which I love. his parents are divorced and his an only child and he lives with his father. Unfortunately, Skyler's ex-boyfriend Brock kept texting her. Like clockwork with this new girl moving to town he’s repeated the same pattern after all the promises he made me and my family. I admit that I have feelings of resentment and anger towards him, but I feel more confident and determined that I will get through this. Love ur blog! And a part of me is so angry at myself for all of the things I smiled through even though I wasn’t okay. i was so upset, i’ve seen he went out with his friends all the time, he has many female friends, one of reason i got jealous sometime, but he always honest to me that he went with who. Should I have not contacted her? Like you said I want someone to wants to be with me NOW, not later! Keeping him away from our son. Thank you for this. We went out on one official date in September of 2013 and then disappeared for 5 months. Lol Eventually HE broke up with me. YES! Let’s be honest..some of us are seeking a “I miss you” because we WANT to teach them a lesson, we WANT them to crack from being an ass hole to finally saying something.. even if it is just a “hello” To me it sounds like a big game.. like the blinking game.. whoever blinks (texts or calls) first lose. They eventually have a complete falling out and PJ starts living in the Duncans' tree house in their backyard without telling them. When i came back from texas we met and told him to break up bur then changed my mind again. Anyway, last week (friday) I told my affair partner that it was over and I cut off talking with her. It ended 10 years ago. We deserve a man that will move the earth for us! I was always focused on school and never really worried about the boys and all the drama. Your so right. I kicked him out… and of course was a mess. (Charlie Goes Viral, Snow show Part 1, Good luck charlie: its Christmas), PJ has been speaking English since he was seven. I assume, because I was not jumping through hoops excited at his minimal effort, he wasn’t happy, so he decided it was not worth it for him. For now. I didn’t ask her about this for a long long time until last week. My family liked him an his family loved me. But I thought I could see beyond this rough exterior to a scared little boy inside. I haven’t heard nothing from him since then. I just got broke up with the weekend we were to celebrate our 1 year anniversary. Use reality to propel you to move forward, keep coming back to the blog and be kind and gentle with yourself. The next night he sent me a text saying the relationship isn’t going anywhere and doesn’t want to waste my time. I haven’t talked to him for 17 days. He said he sent me a snap, but it didn’t get through, so that’s why he asked. He asked me if I wanted to make it “official” – we were dating. I wish you a happy Monday! I told him to take it down, but he accused me of trying to start another fight and would say he was going to take it down but did not. I just read your article and I’m currently going through a tough and unexpected breakup. It’s about me, not him. This article however has granted me a chance to find closure that he will never give me. I did call and did text him but got no response until the following evening. Now ive been told that this is his “rebound relationship” to me and he will be back. I get into the hole. Sadly for me, he wants to live the single life he never had in a state of mind he’s never been in before -happy (he’s battled depression his whole life). I cant believe, if he was missing her Y not msg her? Overall, he is a compassionate, fun loving guy with a good heart. Not only that, you’ve given so many other people (not just women alone) the tools to do the same. He said he understood why I was upset… acted like he took accountability for never truly processing the cheating from the past. I really loved him and miss him so much. I wonder if he misses me too after we both lived a lot of momemts together!!!! XOXO. So he was used to having A LOT of free time when I was always busy. xoxo, I wish that I had the time to directly advise in the comments section. All my love to you, soul sis. I FEEL SO FREE NOW !!! He was being so hurtful and I just wanted to show him how his drinking was affecting our relationship. He remarried 3 months later. Is he going to actually MISS me, miss me like your bullet points state, or move on happily alone or with a new easy-going girl? I told him he would be better off with a less complicated woman as I still had issues to sort out at home. I think the money got to his head. I really did not want to have to give my cat up to a shelter, so it took some time. He hasn’t heard from me since. He said he was sorry and he missed me. I want you to know you opened my eyes today. LOL! Thank you so much Natasha for the blog – it really has saved me today. He would mention that I should take up running etc. I tried calling her again, but immediately, right after the first phone call, she blocked me. But it was it was Me, I Didn’t see the real Him. At least it seems like its lasting longer. When I tried to take control of things by speaking to his family myself things got even more bad. You are seriously so badass and so string and beautiful and I just want to get everything that you use. I found out he cheated on me last year and the years before that with multiple girls and I ended things the moment I found out. Yes, it has been hard, but I am doing it, because I deserve a man who values me and is willing to make the effort. That day I left her a very sincere apology through voice mail. 🙂 So happy that this post helped. “Does he miss me? Subway singing horribly and playing his guitar. He says he is guilty he did wrong to me but I cant accept the fact that he left me again. He says he has no idea. Once again he was trying to hang out and obviously hook up, but I was too busy with finals for school. after 7 years in march 18 we decided to get married. We got along wonderfully. I need to let him go..I need help he put a wormnin my brain…, Thank you! XOXO All my love to you sister. I never thought I’d be a mom and low and behold he’s already almost 6 and it took me 3 years to break away from my now ex husband who happens to be my sons alcoholic father! I do not understand her response as she did not want me. Thank you, THANK YOU your words and insights have answered several questions I plauged myself with. I’m so glad that I have came across your blog. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. He had to move in there because he lost his job. It’s amazing. He became irrate and started calling me names. They told him everything. I know I’m an amazing bright girl and deserve better but at times I do think about him. I’d love to check out your blog! Just stay on your white horse and give yourself the love that you gave to him. HE definitely did not delete my number. But it was enough for me. Bewildering to think he feels no remorse for the horrible things he said and did to me, that to him it was all a dramatic game that always amounted to him winning when I’d forgive so easily. i contacted that girl and she told me they had only one dinner and had alcohol as well and met through a dating app. Now I’ll move forward with your advice and words of wisdom. I asked him to never get in touch with me again. Good Bye Charlie The right guy at the wrong time is still the wrong guy and you really show it through your article. I have days where the withdrawals are crippling and the tears come out of nowhere. You’re not alone xxxxxx. Found out he went bk to his ex gf. However, I sent a very well written mature, last respectful message to him so I could feel like I didn’t look too crazy lol and I needed to do it to have closure. A couple of months went by and my ex still wanted to try and be friends. XOXO. like nothing happened? I said I didnt believe him and thought the reason for breakup was to pursue her and I wanted him to stop stringing me along. The next week he spent every night with me and the last night brought his children over for dinner with my children. The night before I caught it he told me how much he loved and was in love with me and couldn’t wait for the new year and our future plans together. People do not change – they unfold. He likes playing Peek-A-Boo with him and taking him to the park. You CAN start to care about and love yourself now. xo. By Summer 2016, I was graduating. And I’m still on my recovery journey sometimes its step forward sometimes its a hurdle and other time I feel like I have made a lot of progress. And I couldn’t help but feel broken. Yes you were selfish and messed up in a lot of what you so honestly described and yes, from what you wrote, it sounds like she’s playing games with the constant blocking and unblocking which isn’t right either. If I can do it, so.can.you. But we truly benefit from your heartbreak and strength! I was dating a guy,it’s been a while now,but. You were right about everything, including the fact we are not alone. Thank you for this post, for your time, and for helping me go to sleep tonight feeling stronger than I felt in a while. The link to it is on the homepage. If he’s been loyal to you recently, then he’s changing for the better. He chose you over her because they didn’t do it. i love him i love him so much, i gave everything for him to make him happy, but after the last few weeks what he had done to me, i cant deal with it anymore, i cant let someone take me for granted. I was really confused and at that time I still had some hope that we may actually get back together. He didn’t block me off social media and it’s been a week since I heard his voice..His ex gf saying they about to get married so I’m very hurt behind all of this I don’t know which way to go. please help me to understand i cant believe he left me after 7 great years and commitment of lifetime, Jesus I keep coming back to this blog post and it continues to be painfully relevant. Literally disappeared. All him friends are blaming me that I am the one who is fool. Both Skyler and PJ seem they don't get a lot of things. I thought it was a natural phase. Study Date I don’t want him anymore but I do still think of him throughout the day and I still think of a horrible boyfriend he was to me. He even called me 7 times, sent me text messages, sent me messages on Twitter and on Instagram. I begged him not to I said let’s give this time, I’ll work with you. I’m so glad you have this blog. If it takes you consistently crawling back for someone to value you, that’s a red flag. Whats ure view ? I am still in the deepest of it and there are days I feel like I have THE ALIEN QUEEN living inside my chest and stomach and it’s ripping my insides apart. I was force to do things with his entire family WITH HIS EX in the same room with me!!!! Those questions have taken up more of my time and brainpower than I ever think I’ll be comfortable enough to admit. (Bob Duncan lost his hair at about 25). I guess they got to him, didn’t want their meal ticket running off. This went on through the spring, summer, and into the fall. I felt abit bad and emailed him 2 days later to say that I was sorry for what I called him and what he did on his nights out were his business. Just say goodbye already…it’ll be your one good deed! And in the process, I reclaimed my life. I found out my father has a bad liver condition and he was “supporting me.” Everything was fine, he called me told me that we’re not together now but it was up to me to make it happen.
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